V "Umenieto da obichash" Don Migel Ruis razglezhda podhranvanite ot straha ubezhdenia i predpolozhenia, koito ni prechat da obichame i vodiat do stradanie i neshtastie vyv vryzkite ni. Kato izpolzva pronicatelni istorii, za da vdyhne zhivot na poslanieto si, Ruis ni uchi kak da izlekuvame emocionalnite si rani, da si vyrnem svobodata i radostta, koito ni se polagat po rozhdenie.
"Shtastieto ne idva otvyn. To idva ot liubovta, koiato izvira ot samite vas.
Da osyznaete, che nikoj drug ne mozhe da vi napravi shtastlivi i che shtastieto e rezultat ot vashata liubov, tova se prevryshta v naj-velikoto izkustvo na toltekite - umenieto da obichash." - Don Migel Ruis
"UMENIETO DA OBICHASh" vkliuchva:
- zashto "opitomiavaneto" i "predstavata za syvyrshenstvo" vodiat do samoothvyrliane
- borbata za kontrol, koiato bavno unishtozhava povecheto vryzki
- zashto tyrsim liubov ot drugite i kak da otkriem liubovta v samite sebe si
- kak naj-setne da priemem sebe si i drugite i da prostim.
Uchiteliat
IMALO EDNO VREME edin uchitel, kojto govorel pred tylpata, a poslanieto mu bilo tyj prekrasno, che vsichki se trogvali ot dumite mu za liubovta. Edin myzh sred mnozhestvoto popival vsiaka duma, izrechena ot Uchitelia.
Tozi chovek bil mnogo skromen i imal goliamo syrce. Dumite na Uchitelia taka go razvylnuvali, che toj izpital zhelanie da go pokani v doma si. Kogato Uchiteliat zavyrshil slovoto si, myzhyt si probil pyt prez tylpata, poglednal Uchitelia v ochite i mu kazal: "Znam, che si zaet i vseki zhaduva za vnimanieto ti. Znam, che edva li imash vreme dori da me izslushash. No syrceto mi e taka otvoreno i preizpylneno s liubov kym teb, che izpitvam neobhodimost da te pokania u doma. Iskam da prigotvia za teb naj-hubavite iastia. Ne ochakvam da priemesh, no prosto triabvashe da ti go kazha."
Uchiteliat go poglednal v ochite i otvyrnal usmihnat: "Prigotvi vsichko. Shte dojda". Sled tova si trygnal.
Pri tezi dumi radost izpylnila syrceto na myzha. Niamal tyrpenie da posreshtne Uchitelia i da izkazhe liubovta si kym nego. Tova shtial da byde naj-vazhniat den v zhivota mu: Uchiteliat shtial da byde s nego. Kupil naj-hubavata hrana i naj-dobroto vino i nameril naj-krasivite drehi, za da gi podari na Uchitelia. Sled tova zabyrzal kim doma si, za da podgotvi vsichko za idvaneto na vazhnia gost. Pochistil cialata kyshta, prigotvil naj-prekrasnoto iadene i podredil krasivo masata. Syrceto mu prelivalo ot radost, zashtoto skoro Uchiteliat shtial da dojde. Myzhyt chakal netyrpelivo, kogato niakoj potropal na vratata. Toj byrzo otvoril vratata, no vmesto Uchitelia na praga stoiala starica. Tia go poglednala v ochite i kazala: "Umiram ot glad. Shte mi dadesh li kyshej hliab?"
Myzhyt malko se razocharoval, che ne e Uchiteliat. Poglednal zhenata i rekyl: "Molia, zapoviadajte". Nastanil ia na narochenoto za Uchitelia miasto i ia nagostil s prigotvenata za nego hrana. No bil pritesnen i niamal tyrpenie tia da prikliuchi s hraneneto. Staricata bila trognata ot shtedrostta na tozi chovek. Blagodarila mu i si trygnala.
Edva otnovo podredil masata za Uchitelia, i na vratata pak se potropalo. Tozi pyt bil edin strannik, prekosil pustiniata. Toj poglednal myzha i rekyl: "Zhaden sym. Shte mi dadesh li neshto za piene?"
Chovekyt otnovo ostanal malko razocharovan, che ne e Uchiteliat. Pokanil strannika v doma si i go nastanil na narochenoto za Uchitelia miasto. Podnesyl vinoto, prigotveno za Uchitelia. Kogato strannikyt si trygnal, myzhyt otnovo podgotvil vsichko za ochakvania gost.
Niakoj otnovo potropal na vratata. Kogato otvoril, na praga stoialo dete. To poglednalo myzha i reklo: "Umiram ot stud. Shte mi dadesh li odealo da se zagyrna?"
Myzhyt bil malko razocharovan, che ne e Uchiteliat, no se vzrial v ochite na deteto i syrceto mu se izpylnilo s obich. Byrzo sybral prigotvenite kato dar za Uchitelia drehi i obliakyl deteto v tiah. To mu blagodarilo i si trygnalo.
Chovekyt otnovo podgotvil vsichko za Uchitelia i chakal do mnogo kysno. Kogato osyznal, che toj niama da dojde, izpital razocharovanie, no vednaga mu prostil. Kazal si: „Znaeh si, che ne moga da ochakvam Uchitelia da dojde v moia skromen dom. Makar da obeshta, sigurno neshto po-vazhno go e otvelo drugade. Uchiteliat ne dojde, no pone mi obeshta da go stori i tova e dostatychno, za da se chuvstvam shtastliv."
Bavno pribral hranata i vinoto i si legnal. Syshtata nosht synuval, che Uchiteliat mu e na gosti. Myzhyt se radval da go vidi, no ne znael, che synuva. "Uchiteliu, ti dojde! Udyrzha na dumata si!"
Uchiteliat otvyrnal: "Da, tuk sym, no biah tuk i predi. Biah gladen i ti me nahrani. Biah zhaden i ti me napoi s vino. Mryzneh i ti mi dade drehi. Kakvoto pravish za drugite, pravish go za men".
Myzhyt se sybudil s prelivashto ot shtastie syrce, zashtoto razbral uroka na Uchitelia. Uchiteliat go obichal tolkova mnogo, che mu izpratil trima dushi, za da mu prepodade naj-velikia urok: Uchiteliat zhivee vyv vseki. Kogato nahranvash gladnia, kogato davash voda na zhadnia, kogato oblichash mryzneshtia, ti dariavash liubovta si na Uchitelia.
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